The X-Pat Files -  May 2006

HAPPY GOLDEN WEEK!
(Brought to you by H&R Consultants)

 The X-Pat Files Community E-Newsletter provides a forum for the spread of information useful for English speakers living in Aichi.  You can use the newsletter as an informational resource, and of course you can send in information you would like to share.
 This newsletter is a community service from The Japan Real Estate and Relocation company, H&R Consultants (www.japanhomesearch.com), and is edited by counselor and life coach Sue Conolly (www.sueconolly.net).

 Contents for This Edition

 1.  Learning from Mt Fuji - Scott Reid
 2.  Climb Mt Fuji for Charity! - Erin Sakakibara
 3.  Charity Walkathon - Steve Burson
 4.  Enjoying Japanese Cuisine - Erin Sakakibara
 5.  Dog Trainer
 6.  Kamezaki Shiohi Festival
 7.  Great Ideas for Golden Week
 8.  Meet & Greet Lunch
 9.  The Great Outdoors - Sue Conolly

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 1. Learning from Mt. Fuji - Scott Reid
 
There is a well known saying in Japan that roughly translates into “A wise man climbs Mt. Fuji once, but only a fool climbs it twice” After doing it myself I have to say that I wholeheartedly agree.
 
When my Japanese colleague suggested that we climb Mt. Fuji together, I must admit that I agreed without really thinking that he was serious, but nevertheless agreed to do it “sometime” in the fall. As the summer progressed I came to see that he was quite serious, so we set an actual date for our little adventure. As the date in September got closer it became obvious that I was actually committed to dedicating an entire weekend to climbing up the side of this famous volcano that I had scene only from a distance on my weekly trek on the Shinkansen back and forth from Nagoya to Tokyo.
 
If I remember correctly, we left Nagoya around noon on a Saturday and arrived in the small town at the bottom of Mt. Fuji around 4 pm. We then drove up a beautiful winding road through dense forest until we reached the end of the road approximately half way up the mountain. My colleague then informed me that we were to grab our back packs from the car and to walk up to the lodge at the 6th station which would only be a fifteen minute hike.
 
This is when the reality of what I was about to do hit me. Being too focused on my work for such a long time I had not seriously exercised for years. It only took about five minutes up the steep road to the 6th station lodge for my body to start to ache and for me to really start to doubt that I would ever be able to make it to the top, which I could not see as it was covered with clouds.
 
Finally, after a grueling fifteen minutes, we reached the 6th station lodge which was probably only 500 m from the parking lot. It was a small lodge with a restaurant on the first floor and an open room on the second floor with about 20 futons for climbers to sleep. My colleague had made all the reservations and had arranged for dinner to be ready shortly after we arrived. When we finished eating it was 7:00 pm. My colleague then pulled out a map and explained the route which was one of several that we would be talking to the top. He explained that the goal was to make it to the top before sunrise so that we could watch the sun come up over the horizon so we needed to depart at 1:00 am. It was now 7:30 pm and time for bed so that we would be rested enough to get up at 1:00 am and start our treck up the mountain.  Getting to sleep at 7:30 pm proved to be a challenge but with a few tosses and turns, and being worn out from climbing up the first 500 meters from the parking lot I was eventually able to get to sleep.
 
At 1:00 am the manager of the lodge turned on the light and woke us up.  He gave us a walking stick each and one flash light for the two of us to share. We put on our 4 layers of clothing as it was very cool at that time of year and walked out the lodge to find the path which would lead us up to the top of the mountain. It was pitch black, windy and cold, and here I was on the side of mountain staggering closely behind my colleague who was holding the flashlight.
 
We walked and walked, slowly and surely, making sure not to fall over loose rocks which were difficult to see in the dark. After what felt like an hour we stopped to take a breath.  I looked at my watch and was horrified that it had only been 10 minutes since we started, the top was no where in sight and when I looked back the 6th station lodge did not seem more than 200 meters away. We pressed on.
 
The dim light from a sun that had not yet risen started to make the climb a little easier and we were able to put away the flashlight. After about only 45 minutes we stopped to take our second rest. It was at this time that I started to feel that making it to the top was going to be impossible for me. It was just not getting any closer and I was losing my motivation.  We then made a plan.  We were told that the climb up would take us 4 hours. We realized that one of the reasons we were feeling so negative was that we had no way to measure our progress. We could not see the top; there were no trees to mark our progress, just barren rocks that all looked the same. We then decided that if we were going to do this we would need to break this climb down into smaller manageable pieces. We took 4 hours and divided it by 15 and that gave us 16 smaller challenges to make it the top.  We would then climb for 15 min and rest for 5 counting down from 16. We knew that once we reached 1 we would be at the top.  The trek to the top, which had felt impossible, now was a reachable goal as long as we broke it down into these 16 fifteen minute stages.
 
We set off again, climbing for fifteen minutes and resting for five. When we did this for 5 times and broke the 10 stages left mark we really started to get excited. We reached the top at a little pass 5:30 am. We felt exhilarated and full of confidence even though it was too cloudy to see the sun breach the horizon. We rested for about 45 minutes at the top. I was surprised to find out that my mobile phone worked so I called several friends overseas and when they answered the phone, asked them all the same question in an excited voice - “Guess where I am calling you from?”
 
The trek back down the mountain took only three hours and to my surprise was even more difficult then the trip up, as you needed to use muscles in your legs that you never knew you had to keep your body from falling down the steep slope of the mountain. We eventually made it back to the 6th station and then to the car and then finished up the adventure with a hot onsen in the small town at the bottom of the mountain.
 
On the way home in the car we discussed what we had learned, which was basically that we could do anything of any size if we broke it down first into smaller manageable pieces. I use this lesson at work repeatedly now when I start to feel worn out from a large project at work which may take a year or more to complete.  
 
My Japanese colleague and I who had become good friends after our adventure together years later had a falling out in the business world, and we went our separate ways. However I always remember him fondly and wish him the best that life has to offer, as it was he and I together that climbed to the highest part of Japan as a team. 
 
Now when I travel to Tokyo on business, I have a very different view of Mount Fuji from the shinkansen.  With a vision of reaching the top, determination not to fail, trust in my friend on a cold dark mountain, and the foresight to break a seemingly impossible task into smaller goals - I am glad I climbed that mountain.  I would probably never accept that invitation again, but have carried valuable lessons from Mt Fuji with me into my life.
 

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 2. Climb Mt Fuji for Charity - Erin Sakakibara

Did you ever want to climb Fuji but didn’t know how to go about it?  How about joining a group of fun-loving people who’ll be climbing for a cause.  Come join the challenge of the Mount Fuji Charity Climb with HOPE International!  Here are the details:

** Mt Fuji Climb - What You Need To Know **

In aid of Education and Health Projects in Afghanistan

Date: July 15th & 16th (Sat & Sun); 17th is a Japanese national holiday
Application Deadline: July 9th (Sunday)
Route: Subashiri Trail nearby Gotenba-city
Participation Fees: I. Minimum Fundraising Target: 10,000 yen
II. Transportation Cost: 12,500 yen for Adults & 10,500 yen for Students

For more information or to find out more about HOPE International's other challenges:  http://www.hopeglobalchallenge.com/challenges.asp
 
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 3. Annual Walkathon - Steve Burson

C’mon down to the 15th Annual Walkathon and International Charity Festival held for the needy children of Nagoya!!
 
Event: Walkathon and International Charity Festival 2006
Held By: The American Chamber of Commerce Japan (ACCJ) and the Nagoya International School (NIS)
Date: Sunday 21st May
Time: 10:00am- 4:00pm (registration begins at 9:15am)
Place: Meijo Park (behind Nagoya Castle)
Tickets: Including a free Walkathon T. Shirt and entry to the Walkathon Raffle (proceeds go to charity)
      Adults: JPY 2,000
      Children: JPY 1,000 (High School Students and Under)
Further Details: www.nagoyawalkathon.com
 
This year’s Walkathon boasts;
-          The chance to support many needy orphanages and children’s institutes in Nagoya!
-          The chance to WIN BIG in the Walkathon raffle!
-          The chance to eat and drink too much at the variety of vendor booths!
-          The chance to watch great on-stage entertainment and local talent!
-          The chance to have your kids participate in the many kids activities (look out for the penguin…..)!
-          The chance to cool out in the “Chill Tent” with local DJs and other fun activities!
-          The chance to meet many others and feel the generosity and warmth of the community we live in!
 
ENJOYMENT FOR EVERYONE!
 
Furthermore, if you would really like to give back to the community, and could help us out on the day, we are also looking for volunteers to help with the smooth running of the event. If you are interested in being a volunteer for a few hours on the day, please contact Steve (steve_burson@relojapan.com) or Bryce (bryce_conlan@leasejapan.com) for further details. We need your help!
 
Thank you very much, and we look forward to seeing you all there!
 
 
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 4. Enjoying Japanese Cuisine - Erin Sakakibara

Ever since the EXPO and a particularly wonderful culinary adventure I had at the Seto site, I’d been trying to create more wa-fu or Japanese home-style cooking for my family.  However, to my great surprise and to the absolute delight of my family (should I take the hint?) I once again discovered not only this particular restaurant from EXPO but also others like it.  Japanese style home cooking restaurants seem to be all the rage these days as they are popping up everywhere…each with their own special twist to edge out the competition.  I thought I’d introduce some of my favorites. They are all buffet style, which eliminates the need for communicating except for the initial “rules” of which I’ll try to explain, so, you can sit back, relax and stuff yourself to your hearts content on “real” Japanese food!  Most of these places have a time limit, unless specified.  Most allow frequent plate changes and ALL request that you are careful to take just what you intend to eat as most products are locally grown, organic items that take a great deal of care to create…they don’t want waste!  Also, ALL are usually busy at the “golden times”, e.g., 11:30 – 1:30 for lunch and 6:00 – 8:00 for dinners.  If you hate waiting you should plan accordingly. The restaurants with time limits seem to have regular “turnover” times so sometimes that long line is deceiving.  However, an incredibly healthy and delicious feast is your reward for patience!

Na-Na-Na: (the middle “Na” is actually the kanji 菜). This restaurant is located on the restaurant floor of the Atsuta Aeon (Jusco) Mall (website only in Japanese) All of the food is organic.  Tons of veggies and wonderful tofu and also (in my family’s opinion) the BEST Japanese fried chicken around Nagoya. The atmosphere is also “organic” and very casual. Personal favorite…the soy milk soft serve (self-serve, too!) ice cream!  There is a time limit of 90 minutes for this restaurant.
Hours: 11am – 11pm
Price:     weekday lunch:  ¥1,575, dinner: ¥1,785 (children rates are cheaper)
    weekends and holidays:  lunch: ¥1,680, dinner ¥1,890
Phone: 052-872-2226

Harvest: (はーべすと) This restaurant is located on the restaurant floor of the Jusco Bay City Mall (Japanese website).  This is similar to the above restaurant but instead of “organic,” it claims their food is “all natural” and healthy.  Once again, an abundance of veggies and other good stuff, served up buffet style.  This restaurant seems to be run by a big restaurant group and so you can check out Harvest at: http://r.gnavi.co.jp/n074406/index.htm.  Sorry, this site is all in Japanese but there are pictures!  There is a 70 minute time limit for this restaurant.
Hours: 11am – 11pm
Price: ¥2,000 (children’s price available) – do not accept credit cards
Phone: 052-665-2960

Moku Moku Kazenobudo, LaChic Nagoya: This restaurant is located in the LaChic shopping building located next to Mitsukoshi in Sakae.  There are several other restaurants in Mie-ken where the original farm that supplies the food for this restaurant is located.  Moku-Moku’s homepage is http://www.moku-moku.com/tyokuei/kazenagoya.html.   Once again, all in Japanese but there are pics!  So the twist on this restaurant is that most of the unbelievably large selection of food comes from a farm in Mie prefecture…talk about fresh!  Not only veggies and yummy tofu, but also great homemade breads, sausages and cured ham are on their buffet.  Very interesting selection, huge variety and all delicious!  No time limit for this restaurant so you’re limited only by what you can stuff into your tummy!
Hours: lunch 11:00 – 4:00; dinner 5:00 – 11:00
Price: lunch: adults ¥1,800/ grade school  ¥1,000/ kids under 3 ¥500/ seniors ¥1,600
          dinner: adults ¥2,300/ grade school ¥1,300/ kids under 3 ¥500/ seniors ¥2,100
Phone: 052-241-0909

Kakiyasu’s Sanjaku Sanzun Bashi: This restaurant is last but certainly not the least of my favorites. Go to their homepage (http://www.kakiyasuhonten.co.jp/) and click on the “English” button.  Scroll down to restaurants and click on “Sanjaku Sanzun Bashi”.  You’ll find a listing for several, including the new one at the fancy new Aeon Mall in front of the Nagoya Dome.  I went to the one at Asunal in Kanayama (3rd floor).  GREAT buffet with, once again, a huge variety!  Not as health conscious as the others claim to be but the food generally has a “health food” feel, with lots of veggies, beans, tofu but also other interesting ethnic dishes from China, Korea, etc. And since Kakiyasu originated as a beef (mainly sukiyaki) restaurant, there is the added twist of being able to combine this huge buffet with shabu-shabu, though I can’t imagine any one who would dare! The atmosphere is lovely and even the name has a unique and lovely story behind it…make sure you read about it on the webpage.  There is a 90 minute time limit for this restaurant.
Hours: weekdays lunch 11:00-4:00; dinner 5:00-11:00
            weekends and holidays 11:00-11:00
Price: weekday lunch: adults ¥1,800/ grade school ¥1,000/ kids under 4 ¥500
          weekday dinner: adults ¥2,500/ grade school ¥1,300/ kids under 4 ¥650
    weekend prices are the same for lunch and dinner but soft drinks are extra

Well, I hope this gives you enough information to go and and enjoy the wonderful world of Japanese cuisine!


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 5. Dog Trainer

I would like to recommend an excellent dog training system, and an English speaking dog trainer who will come to you home and help you to make your pooch the perfect partner.  The system was created by an Australian, John Richrdson who has been dubbed "The Dog Whisperer" because of the movie "The Horse Whisperer", and because he helps previously "unhelpable" dogs with problems like over-barking, aggression, and of course the regular stuff like jumping up, running away from you, generally being cheeky at dinner time.  The system all takes root from dog psychology, and uses no violent methods like yelling or hitting, in fact another reason he's called the dog whisperer is that he almost whispers some of the commands.  The book "The Dog Whisperer", also by John Richardson is available online at Amazon.co.jp.

The Nagoya representative of this system is Yuri Misaki, and she will come to your home for 8000 yen and stay for two hours.  During this time she will ask you a lot of questions about your family routine, meet your dog(s) and see them in their environment, and teach you some basic things you can start doing to impress on your pooch that you are the "Top Dog".  This instills in the dog a feeling that you are the leader, which makes him actually happier because he is never confused about his position in the pecking order of the family, and it makes him easy to train.

Yuri will come to your house as often as you need her, leaving a couple of weeks in between each visit so you can implement the work.  She has been to my house twice, and already the dogs are at the stage where I don't think I will need her to come a third time.  I also have the book, which is great reading.

Tel/Fax: 052-483-4655
Mobile: 090-1282-0008
e-mail: misaki@dogtechjp.com
website (Japanese) http://www.dogtechjp.com/
website (English) http://www.dogtech.com.au/

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 6.  Kamezaki Shiohi Festival
 
Date: 3rd and 4th May (delayed in the case of rain)
Place: Kamezaki area, Handa City, Aichi Pre.
Highlights:    
Five DASHI or floats decorated with gorgeous embroideries and carvings.

Delicate mechanical dolls’ performance.

Parade on the beach.
Related website: Click here for a description of Handa City, a map in English and another description of this festival (called Handa Dashi festival on this link).

Schedule:

3rd May

* Parade on the beach starts around 10:40am.
* First Doll Performance starts around 12:45am.
* After lunch, parade starts again and festival finishes at 8:00pm.

4th May

* Parade on the beach starts around 2:15pm.
* The last Doll Performance starts around 4:35pm.
* Finishes around 7:30pm.
         
Access (also see detailed map in English):
Train – Take JR Taketoyo Line、get off at Kamezaki Station. 15minutes walk to the shrine, Kensha.
Car - Take Nagoya Highway to Odaka, and then to the Chita Hanto Doro, then it's 15 minutes from Chita Hanto Doro Agui IC to Kinuura Ohashi direction.
Parking: From Agui or Higashiura, turn right before Kinuura Ohashi, pass Kensha and turn left after passing three traffic lights. From Handa city, go to Kinuura Ohashi direction at R247Negi intersection. Turn right at the 2nd traffic light.

Note from the editor: This is the festival that I have often heard my young client from Handa talk about.  He has performed in this festival pretty muchy every year of his boyhood, and it is a big part of the local community, and a very important event for social structures.  Click here for some great pictures to whet your apetite! I have attended a very similar festival in Tokai City, and have written about this experience on my blog if you are interested:  www.sueconolly.net.  Click on the buttons to the left to see the blog postings from October last year, and you'll find it ("Memories" October 3rd 2005).


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 7. Ideas for Golden Week

Aichi Prefectural Ceramic Museum - http://www.pref.aichi.jp/touji/infomation/infomation_e.html

From the Linimo Station "Toujishiryokan-minami" ("Ceramic Museum South"), walk 600 m North, or by car check the website for a detailed map.  Also on the website are details about exhibitions, and a ceramic craft studio where you can get some hands on experience!

Nagoya Aquarium - http://www.nagoyaaqua.jp/ (Click on English button to download PDF file with map and entrance fee details)

It's best to go here by public transport, using the map on the above website.  During Golden Week, opening hours are 9:30 to 20:00, and there are restaurants and shops in the area so you can really make a date of it.  Dolphin Show Times: 29 April-2 May  10:30 / 13:30 / 16:30 / 19:00  3 -5 May        10:00 / 12:30 / 14:00 / 16:30 / 19:00.  The Aquarium is usually closed on Mondays, except where Monday is a public holiday when it will close the next day instead.  Phone number: (052)-654-7080

Nagashima SpaLand - http://www.nagashima-onsen.co.jp/data/e1_1.html (Japanese with minimal English for navigation)

Regular open hours in spring time: Sundays and Holidays   9:00-18:00, Saturdays and weekdays 9:30-17:00, Golden Week: (29&30 Apr, 3,4,5,6,and 7May) 9:00-19:00
Days closed: 26 to 30 June and 29 January to 2 February
Admission: Adults: 1600yen, Elementary and Jr. high school students: 1000yen, Children over 3yrs old: 300yen
Entrance & Amusement park one day passport: Adults: 4100yen, Elementary and Jr. high students: 3100yen, Children over 3yrs old: 1300yen, Senior(Over 55 yrs old): 2100yen
Access
[By car] Take Nagoya Expressway and Isewangan Road, get off at Wangan Nagashima IC (about 30minutes drive) Parking: 500yen
[By bus]
Shuttle bus from Meitetsu Bus Terminal Oasis21 Sakae 1000yen(round trip 1800yen) (about 40 minutes)
Phone Number (0594)-45-1111

Hana Festa Kinen Koen  (Flower Park) in Kani city, Gifu Prefecture (website in Japanese only)

Open hours: 9:00-17:00
Days closed: Tuesdays (When it is a National Holiday, closed the next day) Yearend and New years day
            *1 April to 30 June open everyday
Admission:
April to November: Adults 800yen, High school students 500yen, Elementary and Jr. high students  300yen
December to February: Adults 400yen, High school students: 300yen, Elementary and Jr. high students  200yen
Children under 6 are free.

Advance tickets are available at Ticket Pia, Familymart, Circle K, Sunkus, 711

Fun Events for Kids (3 May to 7 May)
3 May ( 11:00 / 14:00 ) Doraemon show at Princess hall Miyabi
4 May (11:00 / 14:00 ) Pocket Monster show at Princess hall Miyabi
       (10:00 / 13:00 / 14:00 ) Frisbee dog show at Ongaku-Hiroba
5 May (11:00 / 14:00 ) Pre-Cure Max Heart show at Princess hall Miyabi
5-7 May (11:00 / 13:00 / 15:00) Fairy Parade
6 May (11:30 / 14:00) “Puss in the Boots after 5 years” at Princess hall Miyabi

Access:
[By car]
Take R41 to Minokamo-shi and Kani-shi direction. Turn right at Shimokiri intersection. Go straight for a while. Turn right at Kakida traffic light. You will see West parking of the park on your left.

Phone Number: (0574)-63-7373

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8.  Meet & Greet Lunch

Are you new to town?  Do you want to get out and meet new people?  Or do you just want a nice lunch in a quiet, relaxing atmosphere where you can chat with new friends and old friends?  The Meet & Greet lunch is held on the second Tuesday of the month at Shooters Sports Bar and Grill in Fushimi. 

Date:  Tuesday, 9th of May
Time: 11:30am -
Place: http://www.shooters-nagoya.com/
Price: 1500 yen for buffet lunch and a drink
RSVP:  Please RSVP by this Saturday the 6th of May.  RSVP to Sue Conolly at conolly@p-cafe.net or 090-4186-9459

Shooters has a relaxed atmosphere and is closed during the day except for our event, so we have the run of the place.  This means that it is a VERY easy event for mothers with  babies or small children.  It also means, however, that I must ask for an RSVP so that Shooters can cater for the correct number of people.  Since they are opening the restaurant especially for us, I want to keep these Meet & Greet lunches well attended as they are a valuable resource for newcomers to the area.  Please mark it on your calendar - every month on the second Tuesday, and let me know if you can come this time.

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9. The Great Outdoors - Sue Conolly

 (This article is copied and pasted from my blog at www.sueconolly.net

My family are avid campers.  As a child I remember being taken camping, and my father teaching me the proper way to set and light a fire, allowing the air to breathe through the bottom of the pile to feed the flames as they catch, and then allowing them to fan around the bigger wood to keep the fire burning.  I have carried this love of camping to my own family now, and my children love camping more than any other family activity they could think of.  Camping rates more highly in their mind than Tokyo Disneyland, it rated more highly than the Expo when it was here.  It certainly rates much higher than anything they like to watch on TV.  My husband and I take full credit for having instilled in them a love of the outdoors and respect for nature.

The other day I travelled with a fellow counsellor and my two children to the camping ground my family and I often frequent.  My husband was not with us, and so I took the traditional role of lighting the fire.  It took me back to the days of being taught by my father, and I enjoyed playing the same role for my children.  Later, after they went to bed, I sat in the firelight with my colleague, and we discussed different scenarios for retreats that we might plan for the future - parent & child retreats, couples retreats, counsellor training retreats... There is no idea for a retreat that you can come up with, that wouldn't work in such a perfect environment.

As we talked in the firelight, the owner of the campground came to join us, bringing more firewood.  He is trained as a psychologist, and before he owned the campground, worked as a teacher.  He chose this path because of experiences he had as a young man, youth groups that foccussed on nature.  He wanted to make a difference in people's lives.  He also says that he has "Camping Disease"... a condition that causes him to be depressed when not camping, happy only when camping.  His solution to this was to build his own campground.  This he has done from scratch, and he now leads workshops in the local village whereby parents and children come to his campsite to build cubby houses on the mountain.  He has found his way to make a difference in people's lives.

As he, the other counsellor and I sat in our circle, he added logs to the glowing embers, and slowly blew life into the fire.  Seeing him like that, in that dark red light in the cold night air, he seemed to me like a magician, breathing magic into life.  There is no better place, no better time to feel the metaphors of life, than when you are sitting in the dark cold air, with a warm glowing fire and a million glittering stars above your head.

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